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How I get a cool night’s sleep

by Lina Clémence August 4, 2025

written by Lina Clémence

Happy Monday, everyone. It occurred to me this weekend that I have not shared how I get a cool night’s sleep. (Yes, this is about me, and not TuX)

I suppose I thought of this since I have been in bed for several days…and bed is always where I think of how I get a cool night’s sleep.

Thank you for all of the well wishes on this awful stomach flu…I am still on the mend, but improving and was able to make homemade chicken soup yesterday…that always helps.

Back to a cool night’s sleep.

I am the one in the marriage that needs to be super cool in order to sleep…really, all year long. I do not even like a heater to run in the winter.

Mr. B sometimes gets frozen out, but is a patient one.

Over the years, I have put together a successful team and their job is to provide a cool night’s sleep.

I rely on the team so much, that it is often difficult to travel anywhere, because there will be a missing team member.

So, now allow me to introduce you to my team for a cool night’s sleep…which is critical for my health and attitude….

HOW I GET A COOL NIGHT’S SLEEP: NEWEST TEAM MEMBER

How I get a cool night’s sleep needed some tweaking when we moved in order to lower the electricity bill.

If it were up to me and I had unlimited dollars, I would take that thermostat down to mid-60s. But, it is not up to me and our first electric bill in a larger house, was a shocker.

To offer assistance, Mr. B brought home from Best Buy, this is the HONEYWELL QUIET SET OSCILLATING WHOLE ROOM TOWER FAN.

It sits on my side of the bed and I love it! This is in addition to a ceiling fan that is in the room but not over the bed.

We allow it to run all day long and though the thermostat is much higher during the day, it helps to get the room cooler faster at night.

HOW I GET A COOL NIGHT’S SLEEP: ORIGINAL TEAM MEMBER

When I first realized years ago, around menopause time, that I had to have a cool night’s sleep, the first change I made was bamboo sheets.

I was told they are a game-changer and they really are. Bamboo is magic in that it keeps us cooler in the summer and warmer in the winter….an amazing fabric.

We still sleep on the original bamboo sheets (after probably 25 years), and it is about time for new ones, but the ones we have are no longer available.

On our Alaskan cruise two years ago, we walked into a Cariloha store for the first time and felt their bamboo sheets.

So, sometime this year, I am going to order a new pair…the RETREAT BAMBOO SHEETS in the oasis green color.

Mr. B is excited about this order since he experienced the sheets in store.

HOW I GET A COOL NIGHT’S SLEEP: TEAM MEMBER #3

I found this pillow at Kohl’s in the past three years, and it is now a must have for my cool night’s sleep…I take it on every road trip.

I love this pillow and I do sleep with it covered with a bamboo pillow case. It has been worth every penny I spent on it and does stay in shape.

This is the SERTA SOOTHING COOL GEL MEMORY FOAM PILLOW.

HOW I GET A COOL NIGHT’S SLEEP: TEAM MEMBER #4

For a cool night’s sleep, I always sleep in Soma Cool Nights.

During warm weather, I select the SOMA COOL NIGHTS SLEEP SHIRTS.

I own four of these, and they are even getting a little “gamey.”

Since a couple have holes in them…just years of overwear…I am looking to add this SOMA BUTTON FRONT SLEEP SHIRT.

That is the team! They work together to give me a cool night’s sleep which is vital to me and I have come to rely on each team member.

If anyone else has their own team for a cool night’s sleep, please share.

One last thing, yesterday a comment from Jennifer asked about OsteoStrong….which I am so glad that I am doing and feel stronger because of it.

My original post is JOURNEY TO BETTER BONES, STRENGTH AND BALANCE.

If Jennifer or anyone else would like to know more, just email me at [email protected].

Now, until tomorrow….

STAY STRONG & KEEP SMILING!!

By Pamela Lutrell

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August 4, 2025 0 comments

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LAKE AUSTIN SPA RESORT – One Small Blonde

by Lina Clémence August 3, 2025

written by Lina Clémence

If you’re anything like me, sometimes the best kind of travel is the kind that slows you down. No big itinerary. No crowded agendas. Just a peaceful place where you can reconnect—with yourself, with nature, and with your best girls. That’s exactly what we found at Lake Austin Spa Resort, and let me tell you… It was pure bliss.

Nestled in the Texas Hill Country, Lake Austin Spa Resort has panoramic lake views, and this award-winning spa destination offers everything you need for a peaceful, pampered girls’ weekend. It’s absolutely the best luxury spa resort in Texas.

Why Lake Austin Spa Resort is the Best Girls’ Getaway in Texas

I checked in for some “R&R” with my “blog mom” Tanya, and two other new influencer friends, Megan and Tiffany! From the moment we arrived, we felt spoiled. Lake Austin Spa Resort blends high-end spa treatments, gourmet dining, and luxury accommodations with the natural beauty of the Texas landscape. It’s not just a getaway—it’s an experience.

Beautiful Accommodations With a Personal Touch

Each guest room is uniquely designed with comfort and calm in mind. Our spacious lakefront room had private outdoor seating, cozy beds, and serene views that made every morning feel magical. If you love the charm of boutique hotels with the polish of a luxury retreat—this is it.

Unmatched Spa Services Featuring Natura Bissé

One of the highlights of the trip? The Natura Bissé facial at the on-site LakeHouse Spa. This exclusive treatment left my skin glowing and refreshed. Whether you’re in the mood for a massage, detox wrap, or a skincare boost, the luxury spa menu has something for every kind of self-care seeker.

All-Inclusive Dining That Delivers

Another major perk? All meals are included—and they’re incredible. Every dish is thoughtfully crafted using fresh, seasonal ingredients. You’ll find options that are healthy, indulgent, and everything in between. Pro tip: don’t skip the fresh juices at breakfast or the lakeside dinner views.

Wellness Activities & Outdoor Adventures

Whether you’re into yoga, kayaking, hiking, or simply lounging by the lakefront pool, Lake Austin Spa Resort lets you set your own pace. We started mornings with paddleboard yoga and ended them sipping wine by the water—proof that wellness and relaxation can absolutely go hand in hand.

Blooming Gardens and Serene Grounds

The landscaping at Lake Austin Spa Resort is next-level. The property is overflowing with colorful gardens, quiet walking trails, and cozy corners that invite you to sit and stay awhile. If you’re a flower lover like me, bring your camera—the blooms are breathtaking.

Why It’s the Perfect Luxury Retreat for Women

This was the ultimate girls trip. From the moment we arrived, we felt taken care of. Whether you’re celebrating something special or just need to hit pause on life, this is truly the best wellness resort in Texas for women.

Final Takeaway:
If you’re planning a Texas girls weekend, a mother-daughter trip, or even a solo self-care escape, Lake Austin Spa Resort offers the perfect blend of luxury, relaxation, and wellness—with Texas charm and five-star service to match.

August 3, 2025 0 comments

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Why I Refuse to Purge The Clothes That Currently Don’t Fit Me

by Lina Clémence August 2, 2025

written by Lina Clémence

How many articles have you read that encourage you to have a closet clearout/wardrobe refresh every year?

(Weirdly I received yet another one in a newsletter I subscribe to while I was writing this post. Someone obviously heard my furious keyboard tapping coming from the shadow of my chairdrobe.)

Decluttering has been a big thing ever since Marie Kondo introduced us to the KonMari Method of decluttering and uttered those (now famous) words, “Does it spark joy?” – and to be honest, I’m a fan. I always feel better when I have a good clear out at home, and the results are worth every minute of decluttering, decisions and *ahem* dust. I’m even working towards Swedish death cleaning my house. (My progress is slow but steady; I’m aiming to finish by the age of 80. I figured 28 years should be enough time to get it done.)

So to address this uncluttered phenomenon: yes, I regularly go through my wardrobe and clear out clothes that I know I won’t wear anymore, for whatever reason. They get donated or put into the car boot sale/online selling pile (which reminds me, I have to get round to doing both of those things.)

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However, I’m not entirely comfortable with the advice that tells us that the way to declutter your wardrobe is to judge every item on whether it’s been worn in the last year. Or even more extreme, the last six months.

What the WHAT now?! If I haven’t worn something in the last six months I should just get rid of it?? Seriously?

Any Brit will know that items in their summer wardrobe don’t get much of an outing and, if you take this year as an example, warmer temperatures have only really started appearing in the last couple of weeks or so. (Don’t get me started on the fact that the shops are stocking Autumn-Winter lines already, WTF.) Therefore I have a ton of summer clothes (well, dresses) that I still love and of course haven’t worn since last year or maybe even the year before, because we just don’t get enough hot summer days to wear a different summer dress every day.

But more than that, I can’t fit into the majority of my wardrobe right now. I have SO many clothes that I absolutely ADORE – I mean I love them like you’d love a beautiful oil painting or a stunning sculpture you have as part of your home décor – but they don’t fit me. Still, here’s the rub (much like my thighs experience on a daily basis, little joke for you there): I want to wear them. But just because they don’t fit me now doesn’t mean they won’t fit me ever.

And the fact that I love these clothes so much is why purging the clothes that no longer fit will NOT make me feel better. In fact, it would make me far MORE miserable and sad to get rid of them than it does to have them in the wardrobe and not be able to wear them. And I don’t think it’s fair to be indirectly berated by these draconian decluttering articles that tell me my life would be SO much better if only I had a full-blown purge and tossed them out.

I’m telling you, I would PINE for them. Like a child who’s been told their cherished, threadbare muslin needs to be thrown out. Or a dog whose favourite toy is so old and chewed up that it’s barely recognisable as a rabbit (“A rabbit? I thought it was a platypus…”) – you can’t get rid of it, can you? It would break its heart. Older people often love their trinkets that are so old-fashioned that the temptation to say “Mum, are you sure you want to keep that horse ornament with the brass horseshoes on it?” is not a wise one to succumb to. Don’t go there. Leave the ornaments be.

In the same way, leave me and my wardrobe alone, you decluttering freaks.

I’m not disillusioned, oh no

Now, before anyone says “Oh but you should just accept your size and move on!” – can I just say that yes, I’m firmly in the body size acceptance camp. I have fully embraced the fact that at the age of 52, I’ll likely never be a size 8 again and nor do I want to be. My weight gain in recent years is not purely down to “just middle age”, perimenopause or anything age or metabolism-related. I’ve had a huge number of health problems lately, all of which have resulted in me being almost totally unable to walk around the house, let alone anything resembling (even gentle) exercise.

Sciatica pain is one of the most debilitating conditions to have when you’re a mostly healthy person, and as someone who enjoys their food it means I ended up being stressed, tired and lethargic – and gaining weight at a scary rate. It’s not a case of “Ugh I’ve put on 10lb/5kg” (oh, the poor sweet child who cries that)… I am 48lb/22kg/3.5 stone heavier than I was before all the pain started three years ago. (And I could be heavier than that, I haven’t weighed myself in a while.) So right now, even my previously bigger clothes are now way too small for me.

But that’s perfectly okay. I’m not losing sleep over the clothes issue. But what I AM concerned about is my health. The weight gain does have to be addressed if I don’t want an increased risk of heart disease, diabetes, high blood pressure, osteoarthritis (which my mother suffers from and my joints are pretty painful already) or any other weight-related issues that can have a severely detrimental effect on my health. My goal is, therefore, to improve my health and get back to a reasonable (i.e. healthy) weight, and the first stop has been physiotherapy. I’ve been having regular physio for several months and can now finally feel like I can move again without pain.

That goal should mean that I get fitter and trimmer and be able to do the things I love doing once more: running, hiking, weight training, dancing round the kitchen without collapsing before You Should Be Dancing by the Bee Gees has even finished. I was on a trampoline with my six-year-old great niece the other weekend and I could barely do more than a couple of bounces before my knee went Er, NOPE?! That needs to change; I’m intending to get back on that trampoline and bounce my middle-aged toosh into next week before the summer is over.

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I am not a minimalist and never will be

I’ve already purged the teeny-tiny size 8 clothes that I know I’ll never, ever get back into (or at least earmarked them for selling). The clothes I want to wear are the ones I was wearing just a couple of years ago, the ones I still love and adore and want to wear again. I also want to be able to wear my collection of vintage shirts and dresses.

So if I were to take the advice of some of these articles that tell you to purge your wardrobe of anything you haven’t worn in six months or a year, then to be honest I’d have nothing left that brings me joy. I am not a minimalist. I like to be organised and have everything incredibly tidy, spick and span – but a minimalist I am not.

It would break my heart to say goodbye to my flared trouser pink corduroy jumpsuit or my plunge neck terracotta jumpsuit. I’m not ready to let go of my pink-striped vintage DVF jumpsuit (over my dead body). In other words, I just want to wear all my jumpsuits again 😉 – if my house were burning down I’d 100% be going back in to save them. Them AND the dresses.

(Well maybe not really, but you get my point. Though I might go back for the vintage striped one… I mean, LOOK just how fabulous it is…)

Vintage DVF pink and white striped jumpsuit | Location: Santorini | Not Dressed As Lamb

I do know that decluttering is key

I’m not denying that decluttering has a therapeutic effect – it does. I know only too well that having a messy, cluttered home results in my own irritation and lack of productivity. I get angry with such small, trivial things when the house is a mess. My wardrobe is super-organised and tidy; even my socks and pants are rolled up beautifully in my drawers à la Marie Kondo… she’d be so impressed. (I’ve thought about DM-ing her a photo of my underwear drawer like a proud panties parent, but that might get me blocked.)

My wardrobe is just… fuller than it should be. It still has many, many items that I can’t wear, but want to. (I say “it” like it’s singular – I have three double wardrobes plus a rail for protected occasion wear and winter coats in the loft. I am not ashamed.) I love looking at these items and remembering the fabulous outfits they created. There are beautiful vintage pieces that I could NEVER part with. Why would I want to? They won’t date, they’re dated already as I like to say. And I have items that are 10, 12, heck, even 15 years old that I’m going to hang on to because good lord, I made some great purchasing decisions back in the day. Go 30 and 40-something me.

But I DO keep these too-small-but-dearly-loved items separate and slightly to one side, knowing that they’re there and waiting for my fitness levels to return. Because I can do both: the decluttering of everyday stuff that’s worn out/not doing me any favours/not getting me excited PLUS the keeping of certain, beautiful pieces that I fully intend to fit into at some point.

In my eyes, if I give up on those pieces then I’ve given up on looking after my body. And if I do get fit and my body shape doesn’t change, then so be it… but I’ll be healthy. I’ll be strong. Strong enough to build a giant glass-fronted cabinet (like the V&A costume collection, oh yeah) for those treasured pieces. They can be displayed and gazed at from time to time without ever being worn ever again. Just watch me.

Do you think we should purge our wardrobes every 6-12 months and get rid of anything we haven’t worn in that time, without exception? Or are you like me and far too fond of certain pieces to just let them go even if they haven’t been worn? Share with me in the comments below!

Thanks for reading,

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August 2, 2025 0 comments

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Patterned pink skirt with a black shirt

by Lina Clémence August 1, 2025

written by Lina Clémence

Isn’t it great when you can style a beautiful piece of clothing multiple ways? Pinching the ideas of a stylist on Instagram, here is the patterned skirt with a black shirt. (See the post with the first styling of the skirt and a yellow top.)

In the old days (before 2012 or perhaps a few years later), I used to buy an outfit in a shop, styled by the shop assistant, approved by me and hung in my wardrobe as a set. My friend Anja was so surprised when she first discovered that. She asked: “But, don’t you combine the separate items with other items in your wardrobe to make new combinations?” My answer was “No”. As I didn’t have a clue how.

My passion for clothes plus blogging has changed this. Often, I copy an idea from another blogger or Instagram woman but more and more I will come up with new combinations myself. The problem has always been (and probably still is), that out of all the combinations with a piece of clothing, I will find one styling is perfect. And the other combinations are good too. But why would I want to wear anything less than perfect? Mind you, with this skirt it is a toss-up.

Below: Marjolein and I were on our way from the Leiden train station to the city centre, passing this beautiful building.

Below: Next-door were similar buildings and one of them had the doors open. That’s what I call elaborate decorating and I am not referring to myself LOL.

Below: Marjolein thought that the flowers were too good to pass up as background.

Below: At another restaurant, overlooking a canal we had our delicious cappuccino. Marjolein striking a pose.

Below: Close-up of Marjolein’s earring.

Below: Oh, how Dutch…a mill.
In the water, in front of the mill, there are two ‘harps’. Their strings are created by water.

Below: I thought it was an imaginative use of the water.

Below: Marjolein in a pink outfit. The trousers have a fun oblique closure.

Below: One of some girls sitting by the water, asked whether we would like a picture of us together. Of course, we would.

Below: As I said in last week’s post…old cities in the Netherlands always have canals and Leiden is an old city. I like it that they put so many hanging flowers everywhere.
The shoes look high, but they aren’t really as you can see below.
I bought them years ago from a highly sustainable brand (Bellamy Gallery) which didn’t survive in the end. After some successful years they nearly went bankrupt and were taken over by another clothes brand which is continuing only a small amount of the selection.

Below: We suddenly found a big chess board, near some sort of art museum. Marjolein said “You know how to start a chess game, don’t you?” I vaguely remembered starting with a white pawn the few times I played with my father.

Below: Onwards along other canals.

Below: We passed the Rijksmuseum van Oudheden (National Museum of Antiquities) where they have a permanent world-famous Egyptian collection, called Egypt and Nubia. We took a little peek inside but didn’t buy a ticket. This Temple of Taffeh was in the hall.
Yes, I did have my photo taken while standing in one of the entrances, but I didn’t really like it.

Egyptian exhibition at Rijksmuseum van Oudheden in Leiden

Below: While walking on, we arrived at a castle. Castle Het Gravensteen, built in the 13th century. The link will take you to Wikipedia for more information, but it is only available in Dutch.

Below: This is the back of Castle Gravesteen. Usually, I delete everything from a photo that I don’t like. Such as road signs, cigarette butts and plastic cups. This time I left the hideous new building on the right in the photo. Who gave permission to build that?!

On the square opposite the front of the castle was a restaurant with a large terrace facing the south. As it was hot, we were on the look-out for a terrace in the shade. Funny, how that has changed so quickly.

Below: The square in front of the castle is called Gerecht (Court) where the executions used to take place. All peace and quiet now.

There were also sweet little houses.

Below: I saw the enamel signs (private) on the benches and said to Marjolein “Have the camera ready, then I will sit down, you take a quick shot and I will immediately rise”.
You know how many times I have been shooed away.
I get it though, it is a lovely Bed and Breakfast and you don’t want a bunch of people, drinking beer in front of your house.

Below: A few metres further, another pretty house. Over the door it says “Het dertiende gerecht”. The word ‘gerecht’ can mean two things in Dutch, either court or dish.
At first I thought it meant the ‘The Thirteenth Dish’ and that it used to be a restaurant. Then I thought it had something to do with the square ‘Court’. Nope…neither is true.

‘Het Dertiende Gerecht’ is indeed ‘The Thirteenth Dish’. It is a historical term referring to a ritual or practice that took place during the Siege of Leiden in 1574 by the Spanish. It involves the hungry city dwellers, after eating the last of their provisions, “leading” or “performing” a thirteenth, symbolic dish as a kind of ceremony of despair and loss. It was a way to symbolize the approaching end and the lack of food, even before the city was liberated. Leiden still celebrates the liberation of their city every year on the 3rd of October.

Below: Another bench session, exposing the soles of my shoes. A no-no in photographer’s land.

Below: We had lunch in a restaurant along a canal (so many of them) with view of this fountain.

Below: Leiden city hall and it is only a part of it. It is at least twice as wide. This is the side on Breestraat, which is a shopping street. Equals danger for me. Sure enough, I bought a pair of blue trousers in the sale.

Below: A flower shop on Breestraat, called Faas est. 2016.

Below: It was time for tea or coffee again when we passed restaurant Saigon garden. They are situated in a beautiful building and were advertising with a secluded garden at the back. At the end of the corridor to the garden, was this pretty stained-glass window. On the left you see the window from the inside out and on the right from the outside in.

Stained glass window at Restaurant Saigon garden Leiden

Below: It was indeed a heavenly garden, so quiet. There were no other visitors. I took a photo of the back and saw the colourful lanterns through the window so I hurried inside.

We ordered cappuccino which was awful, far too much milk. We didn’t drink it. You shouldn’t order an Italian product at a Vietnamese restaurant now, should you? The treat that came with the coffee was beyond excellent though.

Below: Marjolein. We were on our way home.

Marjolein walking through the streets of Leiden

A splendid day.

What happened in my life this week

A meeting with Marita (below) on an extremely hot day. It was humid and oppressive. I was soaking with sweat even though my outfit was airy. Having a hairpiece doesn’t help, I agree. I can handle high temperatures wearing the hairpiece without a problem, but this was extreme. I had chosen a restaurant with a terrace and big old trees for shade.

Below: Doesn’t Marita look beautiful? And those earrings are the bomb with this dress.

A Pride Parade with so many people passed the terrace, demonstrating for equal rights and recognition of LGBTQIA+ people, which I support wholeheartedly.
Below: After they passed the terrace they all went to a gathering place nearby.

While I was with Marita, Ron had another little project. Froukje (a few doors down in our street) and Ron were designing the garden for one of Froukje’s friends. They have “done” our garden, my bonus daughter’s garden and now Froukje’s friend’s. We are all very pleased with the result.
Below: Ron had gone to Froukje to cut pictures and create a mood board for Froukje’s friend to visualize what the garden would look like. She sent me this photo with the text:
“We have Ron at day care. Will you pick him up, later on?” I burst out laughing really loud, the whole terrace was in shock.

One day, cycling to town, I saw that Greetje (my namesake) was back at a particular restaurant, although it was only for one day. She is a really good waitress and I know her since 1995 when she worked at another place. (See this post with her, scroll down a bit.) I immediately got off my bike and went in for a cappuccino and a chat. Nice woman.

Below: One of my outfits this week, my blue and pink striped dress (link to original post):

Below: And another outfit from this week. I didn’t have the energy to come up with a new combination. Just changed the shoes for trainers and kept the accessories green with a touch of orange.
Link to post with these trousers and white shirt,
Link to post with these trousers, cream top and blue and green accessories,
Link to post with these trousers, a yellow jumper and high heels (which I think is stunning).

Poor Ron took ill on Monday and stayed in bed for a couple of days. (He is recovering now, no worries.)

Ron being ill meant I had to take care of him (he lay in bed most of the time, so that wasn’t much of a task) and walk the dog for 2 long walks and 2 short walks every day. Not my kind of fun thing to do, but I still enjoyed it. Below: Watson chasing a seagull. The photo is not too sharp as it was far away.

Dog Watson chasing a seagull at the beach

When I was out and about, I executed the assignment my friend Katrien (see this post with the beautiful street art) had given me. She is such a good photographer and she is passing her knowledge on to me, trying to develop my photographer’s eye. First assignment was “take photos of circles”. It is amazing how many circles you suddenly start seeing everywhere. It is fun.
Below: 4 photos I took. Count yourself lucky it’s only 4 as I took 45. You will all live to regret you said “Never too many photos”. LOL

Photo assignment circles Signs at the beach

Photo assignment circles Iron sign at the beach

Photo assignment circles Hydrangea through scissors

Let’s stop this post here, don’t you think? Long enough.

Greetje

August 1, 2025 0 comments

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Amazon Fall Outfit Ideas | MrsCasual

by Lina Clémence July 31, 2025

written by Lina Clémence

I have such a thing for all things denim. I needed this oversized cardigan from Amazon

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July 31, 2025 0 comments

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Midlife Lately – July 2025

by Lina Clémence July 30, 2025

written by Lina Clémence

Midlife lately – heading away

Sunday

We had a fabulous evening and a rather late night as you can tell by my pallid complexion here. As you can probably see we were now at the airport. Back in the cold days of winter when we saw that the dates for our two events in the south were so close together we decided that we’d fill the in-between days with a little break in Dorset or Devon or somewhere like that. When I started looking though it turned out that even with travel it was going to cost less for us to have five nights in Turkey than on the south coast.

We’ve talked a lot about personal geography on here in the past. You may remember that it was a project that my eldest brother introduced me to, of working out which places mean the most to you. Some hold key memories even though you know you’ll never return there, others have an ongoing place in your life simply because you love them and so you keep going back and Turkey is one of those places for us. This time we decided to try Bodrum.

Me+Em Travel Co-ords SS19 (this year’s version now in the sale here); Nike VaporMax trainers SS18

I’ve been to Bodrum before. Back in 1992 I had my first honeymoon there and I wasn’t sure how it would feel to go back, however the flights aligned so well with the few days we had available that somehow it felt meant to be. Back then I chose Turkey because my brother and his then girlfriend had spent a summer travelling through the country and returned with so many stories filled with Eastern promise that I couldn’t wait to see it for myself. At the time I was working on a travel magazine at the BBC called World, we covered all kinds of intrepid travel destinations and my colleagues were distinctly unimpressed that I was going somewhere so ordinary but my heart was set on it – plus we didn’t have the budget to go to Sarawak!

Anyway here we were, just married, snapped by an enterprising street photographer as we were going into a nightclub and as it was the only photo we were going to get of the two of us together, we bought it on the way out. Those of you who’ve been reading for a while know how things panned out, my first husband died a long time ago and I’m not going to go into it again here – but at this moment in May 1992, I was full of hope for the future.

Monday

Back to 2025 and Turkey for me is the only place other than home that soothes my soul. I love the fact that its difference in culture and terrain makes it feel as though you’ve really left Europe even though you’ve often only flown as far as Greece. When I’m somewhere that I don’t want to be such as the dentist’s chair, this is where I go to in my mind – I lie back in the water in Turkey looking up at a blue sky framed with bougainvillea and feel the contrast of the cool, silky water with the dry warmth on my face.

We spent our first day doing nothing more than this… oh apart from a Facetime call with the youngest so that we could sit with him while he tried repeatedly to log onto onto Leeds University’s crashing website as the degree results went live. I’ll tell you more about that in next week’s post though.

Boden bikini SS15

Later we wandered out to the harbour… (this outfit is navy blue by the way, the setting sun makes it look black)…

Nikki Garnett, holiday evening outfit ideas

Boden halterneck SS18; Hush skirt AW21; Arket sandals SS23

… to a little restaurant called Trafo that had been recommended to us. It was hidden up a quiet ginnel next to the castle and we were the only non-Turkish people there. It sits up above the tourist drag with a stunning 180 view out over the sea. The food was basic but delicious – it’s a simple place, not one for you if you’re a foodie who likes complicated dishes but if you’re looking for down to earth Turkish food then it’s a wonderful spot.

July 30, 2025 0 comments

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Lights , Camera, Action // fashion ,film

by Lina Clémence July 29, 2025

written by Lina Clémence

Devil o wears Prada 2

Yes it has been awhile since the first movie came out. But now a new one is soon to be released . I did enjoy seeing actress Hathaway be transformed from a unstylish young college student to a a fashionable assistant. The designer clothes were really the best part. Then of course there were the othe actors Tucci , blunt and of course Streep as Miranda the Editor . The all business cold editor.

Well they will be back .in part2.

Will be interesting to see them all together again . What’s new different and interesting.

Vogue news

Well there will be a change in the fashion world namely the. Famous fashion editor Dame Anna Wntour is retiring. To imagine she was the editor from the late 80s till now.

That id an amazing accomplishment. She has steered Vogue through some interesting times . She changes the fashion magazines but not only featuring models but also movie stars and popstars

She also brought fashion to the the Met. The Met gala is one of the big fashion events with many celebrities walking the carpet in the chosen themes. Remember the cat 🐱 theme??

Curious what and who will take over after Dame Anna

Interesting article more about this

https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/c3envvyvqydo

July 29, 2025 0 comments

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Seasonal Replay: The Items On Rotation

by Lina Clémence July 28, 2025

written by Lina Clémence

Emporio Sirenuse Dress, Bottega Veneta Heels, Dior Bag, Arielle Ratner Necklace

Some pieces naturally stay in rotation, quietly shaping the days without effort. A quilted tote I reach for often, new raffia bags with sculptural textures, worn-in leather sandals, and the same classic denim shorts that continue to work with everything. I’ve been pairing them with a raffia straw hat, cat eye sunglasses, crocheted ballet flats, and jelly flip-flops, each one adding something light and familiar. These are the staples I return to, not because they’re trending, but because they feel right in this moment.

blue white embroidered bra top blue white embroidered maxi skirt

Tory Burch Top (old, similar here and here), Emporio Sirenuse Skirt, Prada Bag (sold out, similar here), Bottega Veneta Sandals

Packable Straw Raffia Hat

This bucket hat has been a go to of mine for several years now. Hand-crocheted from packable raffia with a structured yet flexible brim, simply stow it in your bag and wear it year-round.

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Cat Eye Acetate Sunglasses

These glossy acetate cat-eye sunglasses combine sleek vintage glamour with modern gold-tone barcode hardware at the temples— I consistently get asked about them and they elevate any outfit.

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Strappy Sandals

Featuring soft Italian nappa straps and a cushioned footbed with a subtly square toe, these timeless flat sandals offer everyday elegance and comfort for warm-weather walks.

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July 28, 2025 0 comments

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What Your Clothes Would Say If They Could Talk — Inside Out Style

by Lina Clémence July 27, 2025

written by Lina Clémence

Ever opened your wardrobe and felt like your clothes were… judging you? Not horror-movie style, more like an exasperated best friend shaking her head with a sigh.

Welcome to the imaginary but deeply revealing world of “what your clothes would say if they could talk.”

What Your Clothes Would Say If They Could Talk About Sale-Rack Mistakes

“I was 70% off! You promised I’d be your ‘going out’ top. But here I am—still with the tags on, silently itching in the corner. You knew I was itchy when you tried me on, but you ignored that because you only tried me on for like 1/10th of a second, and you were so dazzled by the saving that you didn’t notice how uncomfortable I really am!”

We’ve all been seduced by a bargain. But that “too good to leave behind” top knows it was never really right for you. Sale guilt? If your closet’ is full of it it’s time to reassess your shopping habits and create some personalised style criteria that you stick to when shopping.

What to do? You want to create a style recipe (I’ve got heaps of blog posts about that here plus my new video masterclass Rediscover Your Style will walk you throught the process – watch it now).

What Your Clothes Would Say If They Could Talk About Those Jeans that are the Frenemy

“You’re hoping I’ll stretch and become comfortable. I’m hoping you’ll move on.”

That not-quite-right pair of jeans is the emotional rollercoaster you didn’t sign up for. They might fit in theory, but in practice? They’re holding a grudge—and your confidence hostage.

What to do? When shopping for jeans don’t buy a pair that’s not quite right in store as they won’t improve when you get them home. Jeans stores often have great staff who know their cuts who can find you the right one for your body that will make you feel so much better.

What Your Clothes Would Say If They Could Talk About That Favourite Dress? She’s Got Attitude

“Look who remembered I exist! I knew Lara would compliment me. She always does. That woman has taste.”

Your go-to outfit knows it’s the MVP. She’s smug, and honestly, she deserves it. But she wants more company in the ‘feel amazing’ category. Why isn’t the rest of your wardrobe pulling its weight?

What to do? You need to figure out what it is about that favourite dress and why it works so well so you can add those qualitities to your personal style criteria and use them as a guide when shopping or just for assessing everything you’ve already got in your wardrobe – to keep or to rehome.

What Your Clothes Would Say If They Could Talk About The Forgotten Fitness Gear That Had Dreams

“You bought me for Pilates. You used me as pyjamas and cleaning.”

We’ve all had aspirational clothes—those pieces bought for the person we hope to become. And while stretchy leggings are forgiving, their dreams of studio glory remain unfulfilled.

What to do? Make your health a priority. My favourite movie of all time, The Princess Bride, includes the line “If you haven’t got your health you haven’t got anything”.

All the research points to the incredible health benefits of exercise, and even if you’re like me and don’t find it enjoyable in particular, knowing that I’m less likely to sucumb to all sorts of nasty diseases because I do daily exercise (walking my whippets) and head to pilates and yoga classes at least 4 times a week means that your fitness gear will get the love and use it deserves. The added benefit is knowing that you’re doing something great for yourself and for those who love you.

What Your Clothes Wish You Knew

If your wardrobe could talk, it wouldn’t just throw shade, it’d offer some wise advice:

“Stop buying clothes that don’t suit your body or reflect your style.”
“It’s OK to let go of what you don’t wear, your future self will thank you.”
“Your favourite outfit isn’t a fluke. You can feel that good every day when you have the education in colour and style to keep making great decisions.”

And it’s true. With the right tools, your wardrobe can become your biggest ally. My 7 Steps to Style program teaches you exactly how to figure out what suits your body, your colouring, and your personality—so you stop settling for ‘meh’ and start dressing for you.

Need a second opinion? Take my Personality Style Quiz and find out what kind of clothes should be speaking on your behalf.

Kaftan vs. Jalabiya: Understanding the Differences and Similarities

by Lina Clémence July 26, 2025

written by Lina Clémence

The world of fashion: mysterious, fun, predictable, and whatnot. As the fashion world continues to evolve, we can see some new trends jumping in while some old trends make a smooth exit. However, the trend of modest fashion remains timeless and eternal for centuries to come.

At the heart of modest fashion, lies two beautiful apparel: Kaftan and Jalabiya. So what are those and are they any different?

Well, let’s explore.

Kaftan: The apparel from ancient Mesopotamia

Kaftan is an elegant timeless garment known for its fluidity and casual fall. Its origin traces back to ancient Mesopotamia where Kaftan was flaunted by men and women quite gracefully. Kaftan evolved and spread its prominence across the World. Today, Kaftan has varying different forms and is the most cherished piece of garment in a women’s wardrobe.

The versatility of Kaftans

The flowy loose silhouette of Kaftans makes them extremely special. Most kaftans are ankle-length, however, modern variations of short Kaftans are ruling the markets, as well. The loose oversized sleeves characterize the Kaftans traditionally making them perfect for casual fashion. Kaftans are made of breathable lightweight material and are the flag bearers of effortless fashion.

Kaftans are much more than casual garments. Kaftans in silk, crepe, and chiffon feature a gorgeous fall. Some also feature minimal embellishments, embroidery, and beadwork. They are royal and look exquisite like fine art.

From casual gatherings to formal events, weddings, and vacations- Kaftans are versatile for all occasions. Just by styling it right, you can create any look, be it an effortless breezy, or sophisticated elegant look.

Jalabiya: Rooting from Cultural Heritage

Jalabiya is also known as Djellaba and is a garment of cultural significance in countries like Morocco, Algeria, and Tunisia. A piece of Jalabiya embodies a rich historic significance and offers its wearers a unique identity.

Jalabiya 2 Kaftan vs. Jalabiya: Understanding the Differences and Similarities

Jalabiyas feature long-fitting robes with a casual fall and long sleeves. It was traditionally made from wool to suit people in cold climates. However, the modern variations of Jalabiya are exquisite and can be found in materials like linen, cotton, chiffon, crepe, and other synthetic blends.

Traditionally Jalabiya styles always featured a hood. The hood carried a cultural as well as functional significance. Most Jalabiya portrays exquisite elaborate embroidery. The intricate details and patterns of Jalabiya make it an art of eloquence.

The Differences and Similarities: Kaftans/ Jalabiyas

Both Kaftans and Jalabiyas are font players of modest fashion. However, they aren’t as similar as they seem. Let’s draw a line of similarity and differences between them.

Kaftans have their origins in multiple cultures. From Ottoman to Persia, Kaftan was a fashion garment for people of varying cultures and is a global fashion outfit today. Jalabiya on the other hand has deep-rooted connections with North African culture and traditions.
Kaftans have a flattering loose silhouette with variations in sleeves and length. They cater to almost every type of woman. Jalabiya on the other hand have a hood-like feature with long and flowing robes that reflects the North African heritage even in modern variations.
Kaftans are easily accessible and can be found in a variety of fabrics and color choices. From silk, crepe, chiffon, and cotton to linen and jersey; kaftans are versatile. Jalabiya on the contrary is often found in wool and cotton. However, designer variants of Jalabiya can be found in linen, silk, and crepe.
Kaftans have no religious significance. Jalabiyas on the contrary hold cultural significance in religious ceremonies. Even today, North African people can be found featuring Jalabiyas in everyday life.

Kaftan or Jalabiya; whatever you choose, we have some exquisite picks for you at Hera Closet. Let’s have a look at our favorites.

Radiant rose shimmer kaftan
This rose shimmer Kaftan looks right out of a fairytale. It exudes sophistication in every flare and looks astoundingly regal. The tie-up detail at the waist adds a cinch and a balloon-gathered sleeve adds an oomph of elegance to this beautiful outfit. Made of flowy rich material, this is the most casual sophisticated outfit you can own.
Jana Green Jalabiya

This Jana Green Jalabiya features a deep V-neck, maxi silk buttons, and a long sleeve. The delicate embroidery over the hem and sleeve cuffs adds eloquence to the outfit. It’s a beautiful hood outfit in a gorgeous green shade perfect for brunches, vacations, gala events, and formal settings.
Pastel dreams kaftan

This kaftan is what actual dreams are made of beauty, unreal, and too good to be true. Crafted from a metallic green shade, the kaftan has an exquisite design. The princess kaftan falls effortlessly and is cinched by an embroidered waist belt. It’s perfect for cocktail nights, weddings, and elegant functions where you just want to stand out.

Check our Kaftan collection at HeraCloset. Shop today and stock your wardrobe with our designer Kaftans and Jalabiyas.

July 26, 2025 0 comments

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Why Lake Austin Spa Resort is the Best Girls’ Getaway in Texas

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How many articles have you read that encourage you to have a closet clearout/wardrobe refresh every year?

I’m not disillusioned, oh no

I am not a minimalist and never will be

I do know that decluttering is key

Do you think we should purge our wardrobes every 6-12 months and get rid of anything we haven’t worn in that time, without exception? Or are you like me and far too fond of certain pieces to just let them go even if they haven’t been worn? Share with me in the comments below!

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Packable Straw Raffia Hat

Cat Eye Acetate Sunglasses

Strappy Sandals

What Your Clothes Would Say If They Could Talk About Sale-Rack Mistakes

What Your Clothes Would Say If They Could Talk About Those Jeans that are the Frenemy

What Your Clothes Would Say If They Could Talk About That Favourite Dress? She’s Got Attitude

What Your Clothes Would Say If They Could Talk About The Forgotten Fitness Gear That Had Dreams

What Your Clothes Wish You Knew

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Kaftan: The apparel from ancient Mesopotamia

The versatility of Kaftans

Jalabiya: Rooting from Cultural Heritage

The Differences and Similarities: Kaftans/ Jalabiyas

Jana Green Jalabiya

This Jana Green Jalabiya features a deep V-neck, maxi silk buttons, and a long sleeve. The delicate embroidery over the hem and sleeve cuffs adds eloquence to the outfit. It’s a beautiful hood outfit in a gorgeous green shade perfect for brunches, vacations, gala events, and formal settings.

Pastel dreams kaftan